In the Interim - The meeting with the Principal isn't until next week! What can I do now?

IN THE INTERIM

Okay, so now you’ve made your appointment to speak directly to the school Principal – the ‘head honcho’ in charge.  Remember, this meeting is far too important to speak to anyone else.

In the meantime, your child is still in shambles nervously attending school, or begging you to let them remain at home.  You might ask: “How do you help your child between your scheduled meeting, and the date/time of your meeting?”

HERE’S HOW

First, you need to let your child know with certainty, that you WILL intervene. Your goal is to become their ‘mouth piece’ and you will see that the bullying behaviors against him/her will end, and soon.

Your child should feel at ease that things will soon change, and for the better. You will see the burden lifted from your child’s shoulders as you console and assure them that YOU are not only listening, but YOU affirm immediate action toward peace for them.

You should also let your child realize whatever they may feel as the lowest most embarrassing thing that ever happen(s/ed) to them, they can overcome it. Most people endure embarrassment from time-to-time, wishing some things never happened, but at times things just happen. 

·         Tell your child NEVER let the Bully win.

·         Tell your child to be their own leader. 

·         Tell your child to Never let a bully manipulate them.

·         Tell your child NEVER allow a Bully to control their thoughts and/or feelings.

With practice and effective role-modeling, your child can learn to look past inappropriate, mean taunts and messages meant to hurt their feelings and demean them. 

PARENTS

Begin invoking Affirmation messages and Self-Fulfilling Prophecy sayings with your child. Your child needs to hear you say that the negative, unwarranted actions being placed on him/her is definitely not normal, and is not their fault. Affirmation builds self-esteem and heightens self-identity.  

AFFIRMATIONS

Affirmations makes children feel good about themselves, and affirmations empowers children past anything a bully can ever incite upon them. 

Trust me: Affirmations and Self-fulfilling Prophecy Techniques CAN change the focus of what children achieve, what they want to achieve, and what they hope achieve. Affirmations help build a child’s inner strength, and faith in themselves over time.

Regardless of what some researchers may say, Affirmations do not give children false empowerment. You must do whatever you can to SAVE YOUR CHILD. Besides, isn’t it true? Isn’t your child wonderful? So, ask them to:

REPEAT AFTER ME                                                   

·         I am worthy

·         I am beautiful                                    

·         I am self-confident

·         I am empowered

·         I have self-pride

·         I am smart  

·         I have great social skills 

·         I am talented

NOTE

Whatever you do - Let your child realize that YOU respect them, and that they are worth your intervention.

Question: “Okay, now I’ve met with the Principal, Dr. Cherrye, and you assured me that the Principal would be all ears, but guess what? This Principal is stubborn, and chooses not to listen to me.  What next?”

My answer: Don’t worry. I’ll tell you exactly what to do, so stay tuned for my next blog.

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