October is Bully Awareness Month

Among other important recognitions in October, this month is also Bully Awareness Month, so it certainly shouldn't go unnoticed.

With immediacy, we should certainly help the child who has been bullied, but today I want to focus on the child bully because no child can receive bullying if no one is administering the action(s) that comes packed with so much pain.

Just in case you didn't know what bullying is, or what it entails, please take a look at the words carefully crafted within the image below.

Okay, just imagine how you would feel if someone treated you this way. Now, please take time to imagine how the bully-ee (the child who receives this pain) feels.

On page 20 and 21 of my parent guide titled: A Bully Blueprint Solutions for Kids, I've outlined ways to pinpoint and help stop the bully from his/her menaces. We must stop to realize that a bully may be in lots of pain due to variables we aren't aware of.

As leaders, teachers, parents (adults), we must begin to unlock the reasons, but we must dig deeper (get right to the core).

This inquisition brings me to my next important point.

Do you really know the 'why' behind the bullies' actions?

• Is the child negatively acting out his/her own pain?
• Has the child been harassed, or bullied at home, or by someone else, therefore, he/she wants to pass this pain along?
• Is the child not really in pain, but just being mean and enjoys seeing others in pain?
• Is the child self-centered, or selfish?

Form committees to analyze antecedents determining what is actually prompting (or causing) these unwanted behaviors.

It's time to explore as we determine the very root of the problem behavior(s).
Yes, we must begin to identify (target) problem areas for the bully, and then ask ourselves:

• What is the problem behavior?

• Have I pinpointed the behaviors so that I may work toward dismantling them one-by-one, step-by-step?

• Where does the behavior occur?
• home
• hallway
• lunchroom
• classroom
• between classes
• playground

When does the behavior occur?

How will you gather your findings?

Finally, how will you utilize the data once gathered (documented) about the child?

I've actually gone into much more detail within the parent guide, so feel free to read it, and/or gift it to a loved one in need.

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Whatever you do, please make sure that your child has a bully-free month, and from now on.

Sincerely,
Dr. Cherrye

'Preventive Medicine'

Let's face it! Bullying hurts!

If you don't believe me just take a look at this video which, in my opinion, is painful to watch. While you're looking, close your eyes for just a moment. Now, just imagine how this child's mother must feel. The pain and agony has to throb!

8-Year-Old Biracial Boy Nearly Lynched

Link: https://www.theroot.com/new-hampshire-police-refuse-to-release-information-on-c-1803054596

Our children depend on us to help them figure out how to handle these annoying, and sometimes ruinous behaviors, and that's expressly why I've written The Bully Band Parents in Rhythm giving you simple tools of how to successfully take charge of your child's fate by documenting incidences of bullying that your child may deal with almost daily.

Your child will no longer be the victim. Now, you're ready to calmly take your well-documented notes to school officials explaining what's been going on in your child's world at school. Go ahead, download your free e-book. Read through this guide, and get started today.

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